Hello Everyone!! Thank you for stumbling upon my blog! Hope you enjoy your trip to my pages! I randomly write anything, to sum up, experiences of your and mine. Now, you might have a clue that I am a tea lover. For me, life is simple like tea, only a few ingredients can produce better results i.e. tea dust, sugar, water, and milk. Simply their proportions can vary the taste. So tea teaches us to have the right proportions of ingredients for a better taste of life. Stay happy with tea!!! Still, I am learning to make the life tea because every day it does not taste better and I am learning new ways now and then… Still figuring out my life’s tea brand. What about you?.. Catch you soon!!!!

The marriage season is booming with marriages. My friends are getting married and I am heartily happy for them and wish them blissful married life. Read whole before you make a perception of what I am writing.
I do not know which was the earliest marriage ceremony that I attended. But I remembered some of them. After school, We few friends used to go to the marriage venues, observe all the rituals and eat all the yummy foods. Those were the day I used to think brides were the most beautiful and lucky creatures on this earth. They were having all attention, getting all the gifts, beautiful clothes, and jewelry and moreover, they had their superman who fixed everything. The first and last back cover pages of my notebooks were filled with my drawings of the brides. Why was I used to that!! Maybe my child psychology had accepted it to be the most beautiful thing that could ever happen to people. After 8th grade, I suddenly forgot that habit. Then my superhero turned into the heroes from Bollywood and Kollywood. Besides those old perfection sides, that time I had witnessed the anger side, the aggression, tears, cries, and pains but still I found it was love to chase the uncertainty and tatoo your loved one’s name in your skin. Again One day, I was introduced to the words divorce, cheating, deceptions, and marital abuse. Then my superhero, my hero from Bollywood and Kollywood turned into the supervillain. When you find some word for a particular feeling or expression, is it going to make it easy or difficult to face the reality!! But this time I have to learn some things and unlearn some things to have the right mindset. I have to give up the idea of the super perfection of my superhero from childhood and also give up the idea of the deep darker sides of marriage. I am in process of learning and unlearning. But still, I believe marriages are made in heaven, a perfect match already fixed by God. I borrowed this one from my Grandmother and I still believe the same.

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